A Account of Unexpected Kindness: When a University Student Let Me Stay on Her Dorm Ground
Back in the year 2006, I made a trip to Canberra for an interview at a medical college. I figured to book a place to stay upon arrival, however when I arrived, a major event was taking place and every single budget hostels and affordable lodging had no vacancies.
Hailing from the city-state of Singapore, I considered perhaps I could spend the night at the terminal – only to discover that airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, is not open around the clock. Not knowing how to proceed and feeling increasingly desperate, I caught a city-bound bus and started wandering in the direction of the casino, believing it was a place to spend the evening in a place that was open all night. That wouldn’t put me in the best shape for acing a crucial interview the following day, yet, as a cash-strapped student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.
The world needs more people with such compassion.
Apparently, I appeared out of place since a woman noticed me loitering in the city center and wondered if I was OK. I shared my predicament and right away she said I could sleep on a spare mattress of her dormitory at the local university – which was perfect, considering that was where the important interview would take place the next morning. She went further by offering me some free dinner: one filled rolls she had from her work shift. I was able to use a hot shower and a protected spot to rest to spend the night.
In retrospect, I can appreciate what a big chance she took as a woman letting a man who was a complete stranger sleep on her floor. In those days I was in my own unawareness and was oblivious about things like that. Now, as a father, I’m amazed she offered that help – but still incredibly thankful.
I didn’t end up study at that university, and I lost touch with the student afterwards, yet her memory has stayed with me her selfless deed of generosity. My sincere desire is that life has rewarded her act of kindness tenfold. Our society requires more folks with such compassion.